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One caveat is that it is possible that you might meet someone who is kinky but hasn’t discovered that side of themselves yet.

Or you may have had a particular moment when your kink was awakened – perhaps with a partner introducing you to BDSM – which was akin to letting the genie out of the bottle (there’s no getting it back in there).

My point is – people are either kinky or they are not.

And ultimately, the reason that the relationships could not last.

Don’t get me wrong – none of these women I dated were prudes.

Each of my exes was beautiful in her own distinct way – and engaging, funny, likeable.

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What to do if you are in a long term relationship already with a vanilla, and either have finally accepted the importance of kink to yourself, or realized that your partner just isn’t kinky? Be gentle about it, be compassionate about it, communicate with them, support them. No doubt there are all kinds of “what if’s” that might be thrown at me in response to this. But what I can tell you is about all the people I have met in the community who finally did realize they needed to embrace their kinky selves.

Now, that isn’t to say you can’t go on some dates with people who aren’t overtly kinky.But they were good women, and each time we laughed together, grew and experienced new things, and traveled to exotic and wonderful places.And yet in each case, kink was a divide between us.Trying to get their man to dominate them, or get their girlfriend to tie them up. When you love someone and love being with them, but know deep down that there is an important part of yourself that your partner just doesn’t understand, and never will. Made me wonder if I can push it aside, forget about it, grow out of it, bury it. And now of course I know that is ludicrous – in the same category as trying to “pray away the gay” – it’s just not possible.So many relationships where ultimately they failed because the kinky person could not get their needs met. And of course the other thing I know now is that I wouldn’t want to de-kink myself, even if I could.But don’t beat around the bush, and don’t hide that it’s an important factor for you in dating.