Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women.
That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.
The more mature women may be interested in dating a younger guy out of sheer curiosity of what it feels like dating someone younger, and also because usually younger guys are more “agile,” active, energetic.
An older woman might have the greatest time of her life dating an energetic, exciting, attractive young man, but she is also likely to feel that she is wasting her time being with a younger guy and knowing that it is not going to turn into a long-term relationship, instead of pursuing a relationship with a man with whom she could establish a family and have children in the nearest future as the biology would dictate to a woman who is aware that her biological clock is ticking.
But then again – not every woman wants family and children.
There are also other significant reasons why a younger guy might especially enjoy dating an older woman.
If I were in his position, I would continue acting in the way that has you chasing. He tried it one way, it probably felt terrible to him and ultimately got him rejected.
To build on that, if we feel that you are acting in a way that is intended to make us chase, we’ll remember it. On the other hand, a woman who has a total wall up will not get guys to chase her.There needs to be hope and signs that we have a shot with the girl and that being with her would be incredible, even though it won’t be easy.So what’s my clear and simple advice on having a guy chase you (or having a guy chase you again)?He invited me to an event he was throwing and after that we started talking almost everyday.Here’s the tricky part: Now he doesn’t call me as much and when we text he sometimes leaves me hanging mid-conversation.It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. First, the fact that such a dating situation is still somewhat taboo makes is all the more enticing and exciting.